Being Single

Being single is not waiting
For a partner to fill a void
nor about spending time lamenting failures
nor about being a prisoner of past memories
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Being single is not a Facebook status
  beaming to the universe the need for attention 
so Martians or Venetians can take you as a mate
nor being afraid of the loneliness fate
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Being single is not a cause of shame
Even if your partner left you
Do not waste your life in blame
Enjoy life to the fullest
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Being single is a state of independence
Being single is freedom from commitment
Being brave to leave an abusive relashionship
Being honest to abandon unfulfilled partnership
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Being single is a celebration
of falling in love with yourself
of doing things you love the most
of facing your inner ghost of self doubt
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Being single is being a whole without a partner
Being single is being self complete

Who am I

Do'nt ask about am I
I am not my ancestors
I am more than a dead civilization

I am glory and humiliation
I am good & bad
I am assertiveness & hesitation

A human being trying to transcend
the walls of stereotypes and hate
A human trying to learn and comprehend

Breaking the  walls of ignorance
Defeating the ghost of fear
Learning to humble my arrogance

 Refusing to be prisoner of the past
Rejecting  biased arguments against logic
Looking for a brighter future

Responsible for myself & my destination
Knowing my strengths & weaknesses
Seeking more knowledge & education